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10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is
not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in
the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give
ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance
is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few
facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pit t has already
been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is
like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is
more to ur partner than what meets the e ye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of
resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the
gals. Don't make assumpti##被过滤## about each other's feelings.
Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands
what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about!
When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the
beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or
involve urselves in some shared activities; something both
of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as
watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand
down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while
though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds.
And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at
window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with
her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If
u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur
partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the
"The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he
asks u to keep < I>ur room tidy. There's gotta be a little
giving and taking in a relati##被过滤##hip, so learn to meet each
other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even
if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to
continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook
him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit
him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes
=> ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his
wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and
loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is
u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny.
And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop
ogling at ta ll guys and make him feel worse! Love is about
respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to
each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy
things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him
jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy
times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur
every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy
and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are
gonna get bac k with ur ex or not interested in her
anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of
the relati##被过滤##hip, but don't translate that insecurity into
jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and
cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversati##被过滤##, u know
something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison
that slowly spreads thru' the relati##被过滤##hip before fina lly
killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling
dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a
relati##被过滤##hip, make ur partner ur priority and don't
disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when
someone promises to take u to dinner, an | 
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